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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I'm hearing too much about your problems at work. Let's talk about something else." You owe it to her to tell her honestly that there's a limit. And to tell her when she reaches it. And make sure you don't waiver and send mixed-messages. If after warning her a few times, if she is so self-centered that she doesn't care about YOUR feelings - do not feel bad about dropping the friendship. She doesn't need your reality check. You do need to establish boundaries. It's should be all about her dumping.[/quote] Thanks. This is very good advice. I am not used to drawing boundaries with friends because I have to do it constantly with family members and typically just withdraw from friendships where boundaries are an issue--i needed the reminder that i am part of our dynamic too![/quote]
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