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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds horrible but I tell my DH that I like him fit, he knows that I'm attracted to a fit body.
[b]DH will say the same to me if I get a bit too lax (this is barring any life stressors that impact our weight - in that case we would never say anything)[/b]. I know DH loves me no matter what, and will happily have sex with me (and vice versa) but there is definitely more attraction when we're both fit.[/quote]

In our case I think it's definitely impacted by stressors. Before (lots of) things became stressful in the past couple years, he stayed pretty fit. I'm hoping when life starts to feel more manageable (which it should in the next year, we've made some big changes that will hopefully improve lots of things) that he will get fit again on his own. I'm definitely not intending to say anything at this point, and hoping to figure out how to look  past it for the time being. I don't really exercise or eat incredibly well right now either, but I've managed to keep my weight in check regardless. I think I would be really hurt if this scenario was reversed and I'd gained weight due to stress and he told me it was affecting his attraction for me ... so I think I need to wait it out and try not to let things fizzle too much in the meanwhile. It's just hard since the level of physical attraction was not incredibly high to start with. [/quote]

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