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[quote=Anonymous]I agree. Listen and tell you explictedly that you are there for her. For me, after my divorce, I lost a LOT of couple friends because somehow divorce made it uncomfortable and they didn't want to choose sides. It's not choosing sides. If she is truely your friend, then be there for her. Also - you can listen etc etc etc, but sometimes being a source of distraction is good too. Go to a movie, a nice dinner, a road trip, a walk. In a divorce your friend is going to have a fair amount of alone time now and its an odd feeling to have after being with a person for so long. You can be a buffer for her lonliness. Also - urge her to also get counseling. Having a truely 3rd party to listen to the craziness is quite helpful[/quote]
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