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[quote=Anonymous]Something similar to this happened to us. DH was cheating with several of his women "friends" and though i didn't know the other women, several of our mutual friends did know them. Those mutual friends also knew what was happening behind my back and never told him to cut it out or told me about what was going on. When I think of all those dinner parties where we all went out together and everyone knew but me... the humiliation is still unbearable, many years later.

DH and I repaired our marriage after we both got LOTS counseling. None of our former friends are in our lives anymore. (It became clear that encouraged the problems that lead to DH cheating because they wanted a partner in crime.) We now have much better boundaries and rules about how we handle our friendships. We also have much nicer friends. I strongly encourage you to read, "Not Just Friends," by Shirley Glass. Our marriage counselor recommended it and it saved my marriage as well as the marriage of a good friend, who also experienced this type of infidelity. It will help you both build good boundaries, but it will also help you learn how to identify the friends that actually can be trusted.

Big hugs.[/quote]

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