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[quote=Anonymous]I am also someone who gets exhausted by being surrounded by people who take. I am a natural giver by nature and not good at being a taker so I repeatedly set up dynamics where I give and others take. Even thought I know I do, it still gets frustrating and exhausting and sometimes I get resentful. Once a pattern of giving is set up it is really hard to get out of it or stop giving as it leaves someone with an unfulfilled need. I have learned to set better boundaries at the start. That saying yes to everything just because in that moment I have the time or the resource or the energy is not a good idea because those moments turn into commitments that wear me down.[/quote]
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