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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Title says it all. Before my brother met her, he would come over all the time, babysit for me, play with my daughters, take us to lunch, call at least two-three times a week, then he meets her, gets married, and bam, we never see him anymore. He only calls maybe once a week, never comes over, and doesn't bring his daughter over, claiming they are "too busy." The last two years have been so incredibly crushing losing this relationship. I have no relationship with my neice either- for they are always doing stuff with SIL's sisters. She wants "boundaries", which my family thinks is outrageous. No one should have to call to see family.[/quote]

This is a pretty common complaint.

First, I do think people should call to see family. But there shouldn't have to be a special invitation or occasion in order for you to see each other. But you should respect a person's time and privacy by calling in advance.

How long have they been married? Have you talked to your brother?

I'd stop blaming your SIL. That is the easiest thing to do, and I'm sure she has a hand in it. But you brother is an adult and it is his responsibility to maintain and cultivate the relationship with you.[/quote]

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