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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Will this purchase impede your ability to save for the trip? Will it delay significantly the purchase of a new house? I would be upset if DH dipped into our savings to buy me expensive jewelry, or if the jewelry purchase came at the expense of us doing something else. It sounds like you would rather him spend less and put the money he didn't spend on jewelry into retirement savings, while he wanted to get a lavish present for the wife he loves. I would feel loved and grateful to have a thoughtful spouse, as well as blessed that my family could absorb an extravagant cost like this without going into the poor house. [/quote] It will take longer to get where we are going but won't make it impossible. I just feel like a big purchase of any kind should be a mutual decision and the control freak in me feels frustrated that I was usurped. [/quote]
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