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[quote=Anonymous]I SAH so DH wants (and needs) me to be the lead there. He's a great dad and knows more about their sports teams (weekend stuff) than I do, but I maintain all the health stuff, school stuff, etc. When they were babies (and still now) if he's here he participates in bath time, bed time, and weekend napping routines - but I'm the one ends up directing it the bulk of the time. DCs nap at 3pm and it does bother me if I come in from running an errand and it's 3:20 and the kids are still up. DH knows the routine so it's beyond me why he sometimes chooses to make me be Cruise Director, even when it annoys him. He sets us both up for frustration when that happens. He chooses the backseat and then complains about the view. If I worked we'd be in for a world of hurt because I would refuse to carry the bulk of the home/child stuff and work full time. He'd have to pull more weight on those fronts. [/quote]
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