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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks pp for that. After I pressed send, I wondered if his behavior is abusive. I'm at home, sick, house a mess. all I want to do is go back to bed but I"m here with a baby who won't nap for another couple of hours.  My very judgmental in laws are in town so part of me thinks I should clean the house but I"m so tired I am in tears. I want to sleep so badly that I'm crying.

Isn't that sort of abusive?

Is calling someone abusive when they are not abusive?

I have a horrible family of origin so I"m sort of willing to believe my husband when he says I"m abusive but there is that part of me who doubts.

I"m trying to remember exactly what I said. I might have said "what's wrong with you; you are selfish; wtf did you let Xyz wake me up when I asked for just one more hour" (excuse) "that's BS and you are making up excuses for your selfish laziness.  you are good at putting yourself first. we can't both do that"...that might be almost exact b/c I think those words way more than I say them loudly.[/quote]

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