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Reply to "I think I am occasionally emotionally abusive to spouse and would like to stop: how? "
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[quote=Anonymous]When you say very rarely, you mean "frequently," don't you? Ok, that was a cynical start and I apologize for that. If he rarely takes your situation into consideration then you have a right to be angry. However, if angry and lashing out are your typical MO then, I have to admit, I'd purposely not do stuff as well, since you're going to be bitchy and lash out whether I do or don't do what you have requested. I say this genuinely, examine yourself. Are you lashing out more than you care to admit to us? More than you care to admit to yourself? If the answer is yes (or very damn close to yes), then he is giving you a big (deserved) FU because he knows he will deal with your bitchiness either way. The other possibility is he's an asshole, which many women here will happily agree to without knowing the full story (and sometimes it doesn't matter if they know the full story).[/quote]
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