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[quote=Anonymous]I honestly think there's a chance the OP in the thread you're referring to is misinterpreting his wife's anger.  Being angry at a partner for a higher sex drive in and of itself is likely not the issue.  It probably has more to do with issues within their relationship (assuming she doesn't have any medical issues).

My DH and I do not have matching sex drives - anymore.  We certainly did in the beginning (although mine might have been a smidgeon higher), but we've been together for almost 20 years.  A person's sex drive is not necessarily a static characteristic.  It is impossible to tell in your 20s how you will feel in your 40s.

If you're in a new relationship and already facing these issues, you might want to consider trying to find someone you're more sexually compatible with.  It's one thing to work through this stuff when you're married and have a family to consider, but I couldn't imagine spending too much time on it if I were just dating someone.  Heck, that's supposed to be the "honeymoon" phase.  If it's like it is now, what will happen when you're years in?  [/quote]

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