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[quote=Anonymous]In reading the post about whether women get "angry" when their partner has a higher sex drive, I wanted to hear experiences from couples whose significant others generally have a higher or lower sex drive.

Do you love them and make it work anyway? Is it the hardest part of the relationship? Do you realize they shouldn't have been the one, but its been too long? How do you deal with all the feelings mentioned in the post - one partner feels bad the needs aren't met, the other that their SO doesn't want to have sex with them.

I ask because I am in a new relationship with someone and it seems my sex drive is higher than his (and by higher i mean I'd want sex at least once a week). It's generally not a problem but I think when he is stressed from work, or tired, that just kills his drive. I'm not like that- I use sex and physical intimacy to get rid of stress, I think, so if I had a hard day at work that wouldn't necessarily make me not want sex.

It's something we've had honest conversations about but I'm not really sure what to do. Just looking for insight from others which may help me think. [/quote]

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