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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going through an awful divorce. DH has done some despicable things, but I try to keep it all neutral or positive in front of my son. What good could come from him hating his dad or blaming him for everything. In the long run, it would hurt my son. I also don't really want my son to know all that happened because I don't want him to think that any of that behavior is acceptable or normal.[/quote] My ex, when we were going through our divorce, said some really nasty things to our DD. I did too, admittedly. But when the divorced finalized and some time passed, we both changed our ways and are positive in what we say. The change has been very good for EVERYONE. I started with the kind words first. I think it touched my Ex. He followed suit. Big hug and good luck... be the change you want to see (in the world!) and your ex! I hope it gets better for you, it did for me and ours was terrible![/quote]
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