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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse freaks out when I'm not available by phone. Not in a "you're cheating" way, in a "you don't care about me" way, a "you could be dead and I wouldn't know" way. Which I get, but also drives me crazy because sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.  Just because I left my phone on mute in my purse by the door while I was in back nursing the baby doesn't mean I don't love you.

how do you handle this in your relationship?[/quote]

You sound like my poor sister.  Her DH is so insecure that he needs her attention immediately.  If she doesn't drop what she's doing to respond to him he'll keep calling.  He needs to feel like the most important thing in her world at all times.  God love her I don't know how she does it.

As for us - whatever.  DH rarely answers his phone at work so if it's pressing I might call and text to get his attention, but I don't usually bother him at work unless I need something specific and if it's an emergency I can call his admin.[/quote]

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