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[quote=Anonymous]Give yourself time to mourn your unborn children. (flame away -- sounds dramatic I know). I guess I mean to allow yourself to feel bad and sad for a while. In the long run -- try to be really consciously present and engaged when spending time with your only. First, it goes fast anyway no matter how many kids we have! Second, it slows things down in our minds and makes our time together seem larger and longer. I think the helps because part of the experience of wanting more children is related to wanting to have more experiences with our children. So, slowing down and engaging more with the only one can help a little. IMHO, at least. : [/quote]
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