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[quote=Anonymous]There are no guarantees in life, even for the so-called smart kids. In our economy, kids are graduating from expensive colleges and they can only find low-paying service jobs.  I think our schools should place more emphasis on learning a skilled trade. College isn't for everyone.

There is a huge myth that you can't support a family without a college degree. Some of the most financially successful people I know are not college grads. They are plumbers, electricians, mechanics, small business owners, real estate agents, etc.  Often, the "good students" lack the risk-taking mindset that makes people successful. Not everyone is cut out to be a corporate drone.

I have one child in the AAP program and one child in general ed.  The AAP child tests "smarter", but lacks motivation and self-discipline. My "less smart" child is  a much harder worker, is more determined, and I think will be more successful in the long run.  Intelligence is measured in many ways. Does your child have a talent for music, cooking, fashion, sales? Does she have empathy or another positive quality?

Look for the best in your daughter and help her develop her talents into a career.  Based on your post, I'm willing to bet that your daughter is feeling your disappointment.  Everyone is different. Let her choose her own path. Ultimately, she may end up happier and more successful than you or her brothers.

Check out community college programs. Maybe she could get a professional certificate in a program that interests her.[/quote]

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