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[quote=Anonymous]Is it just normal for a guy to be really horny for sex, even if he is really sick or injured?

My husband does this every time he's sick (stomach virus, hangover, cold, etc.)

i.e., yesterday, my husband wouldn't get out of bed until noon.  He said his back was hurting so bad he couldn't move (he did move a piece of furniture the previous day, so maybe because of that?)  Anyway, when he finally got out of bed, he says that his back hurts so bad, he will just have to stay on the couch the whole day, and he's hungry and for me to make him food.  I'm trying to be compassionate and take care of him, so of course I make him food.  He proceeds to stay on the couch the entire day, on his laptop, occasionally having me bring him snacks/drinks/etc., and telling our DS (3 yo) that he can't play because his back hurts too bad.

I go non-stop through the day, cleaning and doing laundry, etc. as much as I can while taking care of husband and taking care of and playing with DS.

I myself and just getting over a terrible cold in which one of my eardrums ruptured and I had conjunctivitis in both eyes.  My eyes are much better, but I'm still really congested and tired.  I'm also in my 1st trimester, so I have not been able to take any decongestants during this cold from hell.

I get DS put to bed, and I finally flop down on the couch, hoping to rest just a few minutes before chaning out the laundry and finishing the dishes, and I look over and DH has his erection out in his hand (showing it to me) and saying he wants to have sex.  I'm like, really?  I thought your back hurt so bad you couldn't move to do anything.  He says that sex will make his back feel better.  He always says this - sex will make him feel better when he's stick, vommiting, etc. from a stomach virus....

Is this just a guy thing to be horny and want sex whenever you are sick or feel like crap?  When I'm sick, sex is just about the last thing on my mind.

I'm also really annoyed at having to do everything all day, while sick myself, and then him expect me to have sex as soon as I get DS in bed.  Am I justified for feeling this way, or am I being too sensitive?[/quote]

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