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[quote=Anonymous]My parents divorced when I was about 6yo. My mom had a couple (like two) boyfriends stay the night over the course of the next 10 yrs. It was fine, I wasn't scarred, and I didn't end up promiscuous or resentful. But the thing is: - I was NOT particularly traumatized by the divorce. - I wasn't an especially needy kid, I was pretty independent. - They were serious boyfriends. - Of course my mom never left me alone with a boyfriend of hers, ever. - The guys were not there all the time. They stayed occasionally (like once a week or every couple weeks once the relationship was very serious). - One of the guys was particularly sensitive about my feelings. If I had anyone picking me up in the morning - like a friend's parent picking me up for a game or event - he'd be up and out of the house early so as not to embarrass me. Otherwise, he'd take my mom and me to breakfast. (I went to Catholic school with kids whose parents were often very judgmental.)[/quote]
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