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[quote=Anonymous]i stay at home and they have always visited on weekends but they all work so its more convenient for them. they suggested a week mon-fri trip once and we declined. i am like you where their visits are enough when dh is around that i dont want to entertain them on my own. since we had a baby they view it that they are intruding on us because they just want to see the baby - the baby is kind of in need of us, particularly at that age! occassionally they suggest that i travel home without dh to visit them with just me and baby because i am available but i have always declined. they truly view it as they just want baby time and think i am just available to cater to make that happen regardless of anything else. but yes, they only visit when dh is available and it works with our schedules. i wpuld let them know week days are not good for your family. tell them dh wants to spend time with them, ds is in school and you and baby have acheduled events. then give thme some weekend dates to suggest as an alternative. [/quote]
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