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[quote=Anonymous]Agree - don't make him choose. Reverse it - buy the discounted ticket for yourself to go see them. Don't want to leave your family behind? That's what you are asking him to do! Simply write him telling him how much you and the kids enjoy his visits. Remind him he's welcome to come anytime he wants. And don't play the martyr. Go to visit when and because you want to visit, not to check a box to say you did x number of visits a year. I assume there are many other reasons for you to go to France besides your mother (other family, connect kids with their roots, etc.) Remember those when you plan visits. If it is too much effort/cost, don't do it. You seem to have a sense of obligation when now your first obligation is to your immediate little family here.[/quote]
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