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Reply to "Guys, how do you feel when she says no?"
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[quote=Anonymous]For the longest time, I didn't realize my wife didn't realize how emotionally I felt the rejections. Of course, in the early years, when sex was more frequent, the rejections weren't a very big deal. Next time wasn't far away. When you haven't had sex in a week, you get "no, maybe tomorrow" and then sex doesn't happen tomorrow or the next day or for another week, then each rejection looms a lot larger. It's no longer a matter of bad timing - it's a window into how she really feels for you. If she asked me, "can I spend 20-30 minutes massaging you and giving you oral sex," she'd have to be pretty repulsive for me to decline that invitation. So, I must be that repulsive to her, right? With sexual attractiveness being so deeply tied into your ego, every rejection turns me back into that shy, vulnerable, uncertain little kid in middle school. Because of how awful that is, the initiations get less frequent and more tentative, and that feeds the rejection cycle. [/quote]
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