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[quote=Anonymous]OP I cut my mom off at the ripe old age of 13 years old.  I am in my 40's now. My parents divorced and I went to live with my dad. I had no contact with that side of the family again until I married.  My mom's parents reached out to me right before my wedding.  It is very sad to cut your mother off and most people will judge you and think something is wrong with you.  Personally, I think it is one of the most cruel things about having a terrible mother -you not only have to deal with the abuse but everyone around you will think there is something wrong with YOU.  I mean the fact that it was hard to get external validation even among my dad's family has made me feel horrible at times.   It's very easy to come back to is there something wrong with me?  In my opinion that's how abusers get away with it for so long.  There are cultural expectations to love your parents. I  know it was a big flag with my inlaws.  Now that they've known me for almost 20 years and know what type of person that I am they don't mention it anymore.[/quote]

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