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[quote=Anonymous]I'm divorced from DD's dad. My boyfriend moved in with me. We have been together for almost 2 years, and the relationship has been serious and committed for about 22 of those 24 months. We do plan to marry but are not formally engaged at this exact moment.

I would not have been comfortable moving into a place that belonged to him with DD, even though the place he moved out of to move in with me was a better physical space than my place. While I am deeply committed to our relationship, I could not take the chance that DD and I would be homeless (even temporarily so) if something went horribly wrong. I was more okay with him moving into my place because if something went horribly wrong, he would just move out.

If a man asked me and DD to move in with him, I would take that as an indicator that he was serious about our relationship. Your ex sounds like an asshole, for inviting a woman and a child to live with him as a test of their relationship. It does not sound like he is considering the effect this would have on the kid at all. Is there any way you can contact the woman and warn her to run like hell??[/quote]

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