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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He is not generally happy here. Maybe he misses the fun in our country. He feels like we are alone here. He followed me since he was my h1b dependent in '09 without a clear plan of we'll stay here or not. Upon staying for 4 yrs. working our ass off he finally felt that it's time to go home. [b]Aside from that my husband is very close to his parents whom he misses. They're kinda old and sickly and wants to visit them. [/b]We can apply for advance parole so he can step out but with out visa type it seems impossible to be able to come back. Our visa is T. Just research on that.[/quote]

OP, this is a very, very tough situation and I feel for you. Your point of view is very valid but so is his. If I were you, my number one concern would be reuniting the family. If you haven't seen your kids in this long of a time, you have some repair work to do there. It seems to me that that could best be accomplished as an intact family, either here or there. Do you have a counselor of some type that you can talk to more in depth about this? A minister or clergy person? I would also consult a lawyer to begin to understand the long-term ramifications of what either decision will be.[/quote]

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