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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a lot of spouses have never loved the other.  There are many reasons why people just go along with it and get married.

1. In too deep (we've been together so long, moved in together, etc. that breaking up would be too devastating or I am just plain afraid to do it)

2. He/she is perfect on paper and fulfills MY needs/insecurities, I can grow to love them.

3. The clock is ticking and that person is the best that I have found so far.

These are just a couple of things that I see a lot.  All in all I think that many people in relationships know that someone may not 100% be the one, but for various reasons just won't end it and start from scratch.[/quote]

Agree with this.

Also, I think many people realize they weren't "in love" with the person but they do love them - it's just not in the romantic feeling type of way.[/quote]

In that case, I think the person who isn't "in love" needs to pay really close attention and be very honest to themselves about what triggers sexual desire in them. And then tell their spouse all about it so that the spouse has a fighting chance of triggering that sexuality. [/quote]

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