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[quote=Anonymous]Firstly, this is not what I think of as charity. Secondly, your husband makes a good point about that you have no problem accepting help from your parents. Thirdly, I am the most well off of all my siblings (and husband's siblings). I learned LONG ago to never offer what I'm not happy to give. Therefore, if I offer to fly you to our Maui vacation home so you can vacation with us, I will think of it when making the plane reservations, and then never again. I focus on how much fun I'm having being with the people I love, and am thrilled to be spending money on time with loved ones rather than on shoes or some other bullshit. Accept their offers, say thank you and be graceful about it, and let it go. [/quote]
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