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[quote=Anonymous]Do they make you feel at all guilty for accepting help? Are there other forms of strings attached? Is it just that you don't like the ILs knowing much about your financial situation? The thing is, if you can get over the shame you're feeling, what your ILs are doing is pretty wonderful. It's hard to get family together, and, assuming everyone has the vacation time, they are willing to invest their own money to make it happen. And you say yourself you enjoy it. Can you have DH be the one to be the point of communication on all this? I get the sense this is more about the stress you feel over your financial situation, not about the family, and thus the challenge before you is to find some peace with the financial situation you're in.[/quote]
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