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[quote=Anonymous]I grew up as you described. My grandparents helped (read paid) for things for my parents (tix to see them on vaca, portions of a car at one point etc...). My parents do the same for my family. I, in turn, will turn around and do the same for my own children and their families (whether they have the money or not). This is just how I was raised. I kinda feel like we are doing a pay it forward type of thing. However, it does bother me if IL's help out because I feel they stand and expect to be given the same from us (and we have done that in the past). I've just not experienced the expected payback from my own family (and I would not expect it from my children either). I guess it's just perspective.[/quote]
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