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[quote=Anonymous]Hi there this doesn't sound that great to me. Why not separate and use the 1 year period to see if he starts doing all the stuff you mention. Is he an active user now? Of course, I don't know what his actions have been to date or if he's tried to stop but if he is using drugs and yelling at kids constantly that should be enough reason for anyone to save themselves and their kids. Of course, communicate that the separation is a time to cool off and see what you want to do. If you threatening to actually leave does nothing to spur him to making better choices, my guess is a letter from an attorney will not help. It might actually make things worse day to day. In VA the PSA is null and void if you resume living together as husband and wife I believe (not an expert here). Just separate and what he does then will give you a good sign of what to do if you want to go through the divorce. Good luck to you, I know this is hard.[/quote]
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