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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No of course I didn't. I asked him specially not to bring the girl around, he did anyway and told my kid to keep it a secret. He should have told me what he was going to do that I could process my emotions away from my daughter. That's my point, he should have manned up and told me. But the man can't communicate at all and its a big reason why I moved out. So the point is, how do I co-parent with an ass?  That's my question. Not how I handled it.

I really am looking for advice. Not snarky comments on what happened.. I'm moving forward from that and figuring out how to make sure that she doesn't feel ashamed and comfortable to tell me anything. His actions really had a big affect on her. Mind did to, of course[/quote]

the way she wont feel ashamed is by you being cool

its your reaction she was afraid of

it was your reaction he was afraid of

everyone is afraid of your reaction

if everyone that you'd be OK with your ex having a gf and doing as he sees fit - then none of this would have happened

and then you verified it by breaking down and crying in front of your daughter[/quote]

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