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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. Just wow. Did your DH lie about his financial situation before you were married or something?[/quote]

Yeah, this. Why would you marry someone with such a huge debt and think it would never come to fruition?

That said, it's really his problem. You can complain all you want, but HE needs to fix it, with HIS money, not yours.[/quote]

I knew of the debt in general but I think he was in denial about how big it was or that it was going to go away. He got bad tax advice and it involves a lien on a property and I think he thought when the lien was up it would just... Disappear. So I did know of the issue and we have agreed it has to be handled but yes, the discussion with the lawyer still revealed we've got no good options other than to come up with this money and pay it off to be done with it. It's nothing I wouldn't have NOT married him over and I've been understanding but I think I'm also allowed some frustration and annoyance over it. I didn't overreact or yell or scream but I basically said this was a shitty situation and I guess he expected head pats or something. [/quote]

no, he probably knew you'd be upset and you have a right to be upset.  what he probably didn't expect is that you'd take it out on him - or at least he feels that way and this is on top of how also feels about the situation.  he most likely feels that he doesn't have your support in trying to figure out how to make this work.  a good night's sleep will do wonders but offer a bit of an olive branch tomorrow - you're pissed but not at him.  maybe that will help.[/quote]

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