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[quote=Anonymous]OP, based on what you have said, she doesn't sound motivated for college, and many aren't. You might be throwing money away. That would make me sad, but sometimes that's just how it is.

Is there any other training she might like? Another profession that doesn't need college? I'd offer to pay for that. There are lots of programs to choose at community colleges.

I'd sit her down and have a serious conversation, though, about how hard it is to be successful in life without additional education of some sort. People with only high school make very little, relatively speaking, have higher unemployment rates and, work jobs that are less conducive to family life (I.e., less likely to be 8-5 type jobs, with benefits and leave).

if she's not in school working toward higher education or certification, then I'd tell her she will have to start paying rent, since she's an adult. You can secretly bank the rent and give it back to her later if you think that's a good idea. I know a lot of parents who did that and then surprised their kids with money for a down payment on a house.

And I'd lay down some base rules in the house. Just for family peace. Good luck.[/quote]

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