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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The dilemma I am having with CPS is that there is not neglect or physical abuse. I will try to report him for verbal abuse, but I don't know how far that will go. Talking to a lawyer is probably our best, realistic option now. No maternal family contact... brother successfully cut them off a long time ago, and they have not fought it. I would love to let her come live with us. I am worried the state might just take her away and put her in foster care before placing her with family. That's a risk we'll just have to take though. [/quote] CPS will look favorably on a family placement option (assuming you check out) in most cases. The foster system is pretty stressed and family placements are always better when possible and deemed safe for the child. FYI, a child that is in a home with a parent who is frequently drunk or absent is being neglected. A child that is scared and perceived as "parenting the parent" is one that needs help. You are doing the right thing to intervene on her behalf. I know there is a terrible stigma around calling CPS but they can provide all kinds of resources and support, even if the case doesn't rise to the court level. Bless you for caring and having the strength to take action.[/quote]
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