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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know no one is perfect.  But I can't help that I've lost desire.  I've got it for other people.  What the hell am I supposed to do to get it back?  He used to not be like this.  I've been supportive, I've listened, I've been the cheerleader.  I don't need another girlfriend to gab with, I need a man.[/quote]

I just do not understand what "like this" actually is. Your loss of desire is entirely related to him having a stable but not upwardly mobile career? You want to sleep with other people because your husband doesn't make as much money as you want him to?

Have you considered that YOU are actually the problem here, and that what you need is not "a man" but "A GRIP"?[/quote]

This has NOTHING to do with money.  We are doing just fine.  This is about him knowing he needs to make the next step and perseverating, and whining, a lot.  Honestly, it's the lack of self-confidence that's killing my desire.  Think about it - after you listen to your friend's problems for an hour or two, how do you feel?  Whining about your problems does nothing.  I want ACTION from him.  How is he going to move forward?    [/quote]

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