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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd suggest you focus on the "good person, kind, thoughtful, generous, and wonderful friend and father" aspects of your husband.  There are plenty of women on these boards who are married to successful rainmakers that cheat on them with hookers and strippers.  Doesn't sound like your husband is that kind of guy.[/quote]

No, he's not.  And I know that.  But, to be honest, the thought of getting in bed with him is just not a turn on anymore.  [/quote]

What is is that you find sexually attractive about the people you fantasize about? Since it sounds like your husband is perfectly comfortable talking about his issues, perhaps you could have an honest conversation with him about how you'd like him to be more ________ in the bedroom. An honest conversation about how you feel about your relationship. If he does not know that you miss X, Y, Z about your relationship, he cannot be expected to work on those aspects of it.

Honestly, you both sound depressed. You are feeling uninspired by your relationship and romantically estranged from your husband. He is insecure. Perhaps you should go to therapy, have a couples weekend, try new things together, etc.[/quote]

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