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[quote=Anonymous]I just had my third kid in early December. Things are generally going well and the older kids (4.5 and 2.5) are adjusting OK. My husband and I have not been intimate in quite a while. I lose all interest in sex while pregnant and obviously haven't been cleared by my ob yet. The trouble is that, since the baby arrived, I don't even want to be touched by my husband. Kisses and playful pats make me recoil and I know it hurts his feelings. It's not a problem with him or even an indication of what life will be like long term. It feels more like I am overstimulated and touched all day by the nursing baby and older kids that more touching, especially touch that pleads for more intimacy and touching, feels like too much. Do others of you feel this way? How did you explain it to your husband? Any help is appreciated. And, before the thread goes there, we do not ordinaryly have a sexless marriage and I would never let that happen over the long-term. [/quote]
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