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[quote=Anonymous]You are enabling her destructive patterns because it is easier to give the money then to say no, feel her anger and deal with your guilt. It is much harder to say no, but if you keep enabling she will not change. Believe me it is hard. I just said no to my own mother even though we have the money and her problems aren't at the level of your aunt's. I said no to force her to make some changes that will never be made so long as I or others bail her out. [/quote]
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