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[quote=Anonymous]From what I can gather, you married him as an extra-credit school project, with your end-goal to "fix him". You've now realized he won't change, and you've got a child to boot. The fixing him has been a years-long effort, of which you're now drained and demoralized and he's not willing to change. You think it will get easier as years move ahead? You'll only become more bitter and he'll only become more resentful. You can't trust him, and he doesn't trust and/or respect you. Cut the rope and move on. Then figure out why you felt and/or still feel the need to choose partners who aren't stable (personally, emotionally, professionally, etc). Recognize your style and patterns and make every effort to not employ the same tactics on your DC. Good luck.[/quote]
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