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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I am going to give the gifts to the kids. My question was about if I should send my sister something. She does not have kids, only a boyfriend.[/quote] Have the kids send a thank you note. This is what they would do for anyone giving them a gift. I don't think you should send your sister anything. It's not up to you to manage the relationship. If she is ready to take responsibility for what she said, then fine. To be clear, sending your kids a gift is NOT an apology or taking responsibility for what she did and said to you. You need to have clear boundaries and protect yourself from getting hurt by her. It's not about punishing her, but about taking care of yourself. [/quote]
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