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[quote=Anonymous]I have a dilemma.  My husband is best man in an upcoming wedding and planning the bachelor party.  It bothers me greatly if going to a strip club is part of the plan.  He knows this and assures me it is not in the plan.  The groom to be is very into that and I just KNOW he is going to want to go to one.  His wife to be accepts this about him but draws the line at anything like a lap dance, etc.  So yesterday I came across a message between him and another friend that it is indeed in the plans and my husband said the clubs have to be kept on the way way down low.  It made me sick to my stomach just knowing he plans on it and also is lying to me about it.  We both have each others password to all of our accounts.  I wasn't looking for this, but the word "club" caught my eye so I read it.  Yes, I may have him on a tight leash but no tighter than the one he has me on. It's pretty mutual, out expectations of each other in that department.  He would not want me to go to one either.  FWIW, I am very attractive and not a prude in the bedroom.  He can have sex with me whenever he wants, in fact, I want it more than he does.  I will also either be 8 months pregnant at the time or about a month postpartum so not feeling the greatest about myself.  The whole party is going to be a weekend long and I will be home with a toddler and newborn (or very pregnant).  So, I know I will not be able to just let this go.  I don't know whether to say something before hand (it's 2-4 months away) or let it happen and say something afterwards. I would've been worried about it all weekend anyway, and now I know why.  They also plan to go to a casino and I know there are half naked dancers there which also bothers me but I was going to just let that go and try not to let it bother me.  But the strip club? After he knows how it will hurt me and told me he won't?  :([/quote]

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