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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]your kids will wonder about them as they grow up. give them the gifts. I had estranged grand parents for similar issues. my mother never hid gifts from them. no matter what the inlaws did where you can't have contact why not accpet the gifts and tell them thanks. just simple. maybe they are reaching out. believe me I know about manipulators and games, but you have to rise above it to not damage your kids. as they grow they will see all the other gparents at games and parties, other kids talking about gifts etc. there will come a day when maybe they are still alive and want to visit them, then you will have no control of it if they are 18. they will be more curious if they don't have any contact. [/quote] I disagree. Don't accept gifts from them. When the kids are old enough explain the situation. [/quote]
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