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[quote=Anonymous]I would recommend marital counseling.

I'm a very decisive person. I almost always have a picture in my head for a party, a present, how I picture a project going. My X and I are divorced so I may not be a good person from whom to take advice, but in my current relationship we've agreed to have domains where someone is the lead. Like, I expect to always have the lead decisions over my child, (this was not true in my marriage and a source of major discontent), and lead decisions about how we spend out weekends, but we've agreed he can get lead decision making over cars, gardening, and laundry. I know it sounds weird, but it's hard for me sometimes. I always want to butt in about the garden and laundry. But I recognize that it's not reasonable: I appreciate input in the things I get ultimate say over, but in general I really do know what and how I want that stuff done. It's not reasonable that Every Last Thing goes my way and in my way, unless I want to live by myself.

So that is just my two cents.[/quote]

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