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[quote=Anonymous]My brother died. To make a long story short, he has no will, so his ex-wife of his minor child is in charge. This is unfortunate as they were married 2 years, had an acrimonious divorce (8 years ago) and she truly hates him. (And to be fair about this, I think he treated her very badly, so she has reasons to be resentful and angry.)

However, she is now in charge and this is heartbreaking to me. For instance, she won't release his ashes to be buried with my brother's and my mom. She has no interest or patience for anyone who wants to say anything nice about him or memorialize any of his nice attributes in any way. As I said, I understand she is very hurt and angry at him.

But I am heartbroken. When I complain about various decisions my brother's ex makes to my SO, he is very critical of me. "Why are you bashing her? and "He was just a mess of a person. Who dies without a will? She's doing the best she can." and so forth. I get that he doesn't like hearing me complain, but I am getting angrier and angrier. I am very sad about the situation with my brother, but I am feeling resentful and angry at my SO for his lack of compassion here for ME. And I should add, he generally has not done anything about this tragedy: no card, no flowers, etc.

I want to know what to do? I am feeling so hurt that I want to dump him, but then I think I'm probably thinking that from spite, because my feelings are hurt.[/quote]

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