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[quote=Anonymous]I have never, not even once, said anything negative to you. I have never, not even once, said anything negative *about* you to anyone - not my brother, not my other family, not strangers, not anyone. Never. And you will never hear me resort to such chatter, though I will let it fly here, once, anonymously on the internet.

So it's come to my attention that you think I'm a bitch. On what planet is someone who is basically a nurse, nanny, chef, maid, personal driver, and delivery service for months after you have a child, a "bitch?" How entitled and selfish do you have to be, to even consider saying something? You have no sense of appreciation or gratitude, or understanding that no one has to do anything for you. But I'm made many attempts to reach out to you - ask about you, ask how things are going with you, helping you out when you've been in a bind - too many times to count. Even though, you've NEVER done anything the same for me. And now, because I've decided to cut the constant help cord because I felt I was being taken advantage of... now I'm a bitch? Are you fucking kidding me?

I never made custom meals when my other siblings had their children - no gluten free, lactose free homemade, delicious, warm meals in the months after giving birth. I never drove them to appointments, because they took the time to learn how to drive themselves. I never stayed over, stayed up all night, multiple times a week, so they could get some rest - for months on end. But they were much kinder, much more appreciative, than your entitled brattiness ever has been.

I get that maybe you feel like you don't know how to fit into our family gatherings or get-togethers. I understand that this can be an adjustment. But I've made attempts to include you, for several years now. Ask about you, include you in things. But if you're going to spend the entire time on the sofa and on your phone, instead of jumping in and lending a hand (and socializing), then that's your own fucking fault for feeling left out. You have to make a little bit of effort yourself. You're 30 years old. Grow the fuck up. At some point you can't expect everyone to coddle you.

And you know, your sister is right. You are a snob. Maybe she's a little colorful and off-kilter sometimes - but she's still kind and good. Her heart is in the right place. The problem is not your sister. The problem is you. The way you treat her is abhorrent. I've lot one of my sisters, and let me tell you - you are so lucky to have her.

I'm fucking baffled that you would call me a bitch, because I caught on, and decided to stop being there for you. I love my nephew dearly, but it's not worth dealing with your massive sense of entitlement of how much people should do for you. Your perception is fucked up beyond belief. Grow up. Do things for yourself. Get to know others, and do things for others. And learn how to fucking drive. [/quote]

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