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[quote=Anonymous]Reminds me of a someone breaking up with me very long ago. She broke it off suddenly in less than a year. At least it seemed suddenly at the time to me. The thing was I said it was ok with me for her go on a trip with a guy friend she knew, because I trusted her, but she wasn't to be trusted as it turned out.

She comes back from the trip cold as ice towards me. Wouldn't talk about it, just wanted to break up then and there. So of course it begin to become clear what had happened. He had sex with her and apparently really put it on her far better than I had ever done, plus she liked him to begin with.

I've always been someone who looks on the bright side of things with no tendency towards depression, but that one episode got to me, that she could ask me to trust her on a trip with a guy and then betray me, and then cut me off so abruptly. I became what must have been clinically depressed for three months. I kept working and all that, but I was so deeply sad.

The stress weakened me physically during that time and I caught both the flu and a severe cold during those three months and was in very bad shape physically and mentally. After 3 months I was able to pull myself out of it and get on with my life, but I've never forgotten how someone can treat someone so coldly so suddenly.  [/quote]

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