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[quote=Anonymous] Well, I come from a country where by law you have to will the bulk of your estate to your next of kin. With that bias, I would absolutely feel snubbed and hurt if I were in your shoes! Accept you feel ambivalent towards your mother in order to move on, which will allow you to propose... a trust for the grandchildren. VERY important, so that they avoid blowing through the money before they realize how much hard work it will take to earn the same amount. Do not let up on your mother about this. Say: "If you do not want to will it to me personally (so that my husband cannot lay his hands on it), then do the right thing and will it RESPONSIBLY to the grandkids, via a trust, and appoint certain administrators (hopefully me!)." [/quote]
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