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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP - her money and her choice, and you've said that you understand her feelings about your DH (a situation which sucks for you, BTW, and I'm sorry). I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to talk with your mother and tell her how much you appreciate what she'll be giving to your daughter, but express your concerns and ask if there's a way for you to work with your mother to make the gift the most beneficial to her granddaughter in the long run. Could be put in a trust, could be provided over time based on your daughter meeting certain criteria (or it goes to charity or some other recipient) and so on. This is your mother's legacy to your daughter - don't make it something that divides you and your mother. [/quote]
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