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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I tried OK Cupid. Nobody seemed to really like my profile and I got a lot of messages from guys seeking hook-ups, or guys who can't spell/punctuate, or blue-collar guys (not that I'm a snob, I just know we wouldn't be compatible), or older men. I dunno. Maybe I should try a different online dating site.[/quote]

Maybe you need to try SENDING some of the messages...

Much like you are waiting for men to ask you out in person, you seem to be waiting for the right match to find you online. Novel idea: go look for him yourself!

Now, like most women you probably like to be pursued and wooed and think taking control in this way doesn't suit your feminine style? You don't have to do the asking out, but you do have to work on approaching men. Okcupid has every kind of guy imaginable on there, so visit a few dozen profiles and send short messages to the guys you'd like to know more about - compliment a band they like or ask about a picture they posted or something. Then message or chat normally, amiably, and he will know you're interested. He'll ask you out if he is also.[/quote]

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