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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds like a jerk, but on the other hand, if these are just your latest 3 things and you do this kind of thing all the time, I can see where it might be really annoying to live with. Maybe you really are disorganized. If so, it's unrealistic for him to expect significant changes, but on the other hand you could put some effort into finishing one task before you start the next.

Sure, it sounds petty to complain about a pen, but if it's a pen on top of a long litany of half-completed tasks, I get where he might be coming from.  [/quote]

Yes- I'm the "systematic" one in our relationship. I mostly go around behind DH tidying up the bits and bobs of things he leaves around. He never puts things back where they belong, leaves random trash where he drops it, etc. A really dumb example- he opens a beer. Leaves opener and cap on counter. Always. Never cleans it up. My system is put away, throw out, then drink beer. But things like that times a million all day long every day. It gets frustrating. But rather than nag I mostly just mitigate! Maybe work on these things in a few months when you are less sleep deprived. It will help a lot when things get really crazy with kids! Tell your husband to help out and lay off.[/quote]

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