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[quote=Anonymous]We are young (22/23) and have been together 3 years . While headed to my families for Thanksgiving, I was stopping half way to drop
My boyfriend off to his mom (we are purchasing a new car and have only one for the moment) in a town an hour from
His home town. His mom was to meet us, when she didn't show up
After an hour and a half (after answering the phone once saying she was otw) my boyfriend had me just leave him
At a diner and continue my drive, as I had 3 hours ahead o me..

Shortly after leaving him, he called to tell
Me his mother had been picked up for driving drunk (she is an alcoholic but refuses help or to aknowledge it). Leaving h
Stranded on thanksgiving - thankfully a friend came toget him.

Fast forward to Saturday, my boyfriend tries to talk to her and she flips out, cancels
His insurance(it was cheaper for him to pay her instead of get his own policy). Accuses him of using heroin in front of his grandparent(thankfully, they know she's a nut). Then went on to say the reason he and i had problems
A while ago was because of xy and z (she was making things up to hurt him). He was very hurt and still is.

Although she's a bitch, she loves me and has told me time and time
Again... I'm now wondering if I should reach out to her and let her know she can still get help. I believe everyone is redeemable, she's fucked up bad but I see how much my bf hurts over this.

If I did do this, I would tell
Her to seek help and remind her that we plan to marry and have kids but refuse to have her in our or our children's lives if she can't take Controll and seek treatment. I just want to see this family heal... But I don't know if it would be wrong of me to get involved... [/quote]

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